Monday, 5 September 2011

First time of everything.

My first cry at KKH in the year of 1983...
My first birthday with me poking my little finger in the cake with pig design:)
My first day in school in PAP kindergarten...
My first graduation ceremony and photos are taken with me pouting my lips as its real hot
My first time studying in primary school, totally strange to the environment, learning independent.
My first time taking care of myself in year 1991 when I was only 8 years old...handwashed clothing, ownslf walk to school, ownself but no one there to help me, cos my dearest mum was sick and nearly went to heaven...
My first time having a cast on my left elbow caused by a trip. (An Indian boy purposedly trip me)
My first time taking streamin exam... Can go EM1 but my mum opt EM2...
My first time taking PSLE exams....
My first time receiving the PSLE results...got a aggregate of 211 able to enter exprress stream:)
My first time studying in secondary school, travelled on bus alone to and fro, feeling lost & helpless...
My first time receiving bursary award ($250) In Sec 1:) Next 3 yrs also got it:)
My first time loving someone in Sec 3-First puppy love...ended up in less than 2 weeks time.
My first time being betrayed by best friend....feeling hurt till sick...
My first time taking O level exams...
My first time taking O level results... Got 2As and 4Bs, score 16pts, able to enter JC:)
My first time making a serious mistake... I wanted go Juroong JC, objected by parents, they want me go Pioneer JC...So I made 2nd choice to Temasek Poly as I wanted to study law which is only available at there, again objected, they want me go Singapore Poly as nearer to home place...feel so angry & disappointed, I chose to enter JI, a 3yrs colleage life which I don't like at all, but chose there as my 2 best friends study there...
My first time having a serious relationship with a Msian guy...ended up hurt...he is gd only that he kept ask me for money and refuse mend his ways...keep went to loansharks & like fighting...
My first time initiated breakup....
My first time working part- time at Benganwan Solo at Tiong Bahru Plaza...Very happy working there:)
My first time feeling real sad cos forced to stop further study due to personal reasons.......
My first time feeling so rundown w/o a penny in my pocket, the sky just collapsed on me, leaving me in darkness....
My first time working real hard in a spa earning my keeps and save every bits I can...
My first time I find real happiness in yr 2004, 31st Jan, where I met my hubby:)
My first time working with a little bump (my darling boy, Marcus)
My first time staying in labour ward w/o any pain relief, enduring pain more than 24hrs before finally give birth to my boy, Marcus:)
My first time being a housewife then...
My first time moving into a flat that I can called my own!
My first time havin real freedom living at ease with my hubby and bb boy:)
My first time bathing for little Marcus...
My first time cooking for the family....
My first time doing chores...
My first time hearing my boy calling me:"Mama" :)
My first time holding his little hand when he learn to walk:)
My first time teaching my boy writing & reading.
My first time looking after my boy when I am pregnant again...
My first time losing my beloved kin...my dearest grandpa...he let us on 05-02-2008, he didn't even got the chance to see his great-grand daughter...he passed away on CNY's eve but nobody notify us, by the time I heard from my parents, it was day 2 of CNY...didn't got the chance to see him for the last time...didn't got the chance to hold funeral for him as body already cremanated into ashes....my greatest regret in my own life...i misses him so much even till nw....
My first time having a bb girl:)
My first time staying in a A1 suite while delivering bb girl:)
My first time looking after 2 great kids by myself:)
My first time bringing Marcus to school-K1.
My first time... .... ...I still got many first times I haven't experienced....
But I know the most valuable & memorable first time will ALWAYS be....................my first time being housewife looking after my 2 great kids, Marcus & Melody:)
And the most regrettable first time is the departure of my grandpa.......
In life, there are many first times encounters and all these won't be able turn back at all.
Tresure every memorable first times and never repeat any first time mistakes, only then willl our life filled with joy and not sorrow...

I am now anticipating for the first time of my 2 kids' graduation; their first career; their first relationship; their first & ever marriage; their first kids (my grandkids)........

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